Though Tantric practices predate Vedic Hinduism by some generations, a newer, ever more erotically oriented Tantra has arisen through recent scholarship.
Tantra is based on the concept that along our bodily centres, there lay spiritual hotspots or chakras. By focusing our energy on these chakras, paying them special mind during the act of sex, we can learn to extend and amplify our sexual bliss.
From this idea is born the concept of sensual couples massage and an erotic massage, a way to connect with our lovers on a plane higher and more intense. In short: to satisfy more of our lover.
Since Tantra is based on the idea that our entire body has the capability to be erogenous, touch and massage is a vital part of the tantric sexual practice. Touch is incredibly healing as well as pleasureable. Indeed children who do not receive warm touch fail to thrive and grow. Touch can say so much – sometimes transcending the depth of words.
Warm the room, the oils you are going to use and your hands before beginning. Your goal is to create within your partner an transcendent sexual experience and this won’t work if their body is shocked by sudden sensation.
Begin with a light massage, keeping contact with your partner at all times. Of particular interest should be the middle of her body, where lie her chakras or spiritual centres. Massage the top of the head, forehead, throat (be gentle!), breasts, top and bottom of their abdomen before approaching sexual massage. Concentrate on relaxing and focusing each spot before moving to the next.
Pay close attention to your partner’s body as you massage; his or her body language will guide your focus. Remember that good sensual massage is about reading and appreciating your partner’s body. Don’t rush. You may wish also to pay attention to their fingertips, the soles of their feet and other areas densely populated with nerve endings. Sensual massage is an essentially empathic art, and I encourage you to go with your instincts.
Traditionally, Tantra involves a withholding of orgasm. The goal rather, is to transcend mere pleasure. With practice, intense orgasmic sensations will build higher and higher. You will be taking your lover through a serious of peak and troughs in terms of pleasure. Prolonging a state of arousal and pleasure is the name of the game.
In this state pleasure, healing, intimacy and bliss and multiplied ten fold! Past hurts, stress, tension and pain slowly fade and dissolve into this powerful state of being.
Modern Tantric scholars often eschew the anti-orgasmic sentiment, feeling that the release brings the event full-circle. Whether you choose to bring your partner to orgasm, or to save that delicious tension for other purposes, the act of Tantric massage will enhance any sexual experience.
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